I've been keen to refer to my partner as Hubby for the last four years. I've respected his privacy for the same reason one shouldn't preach about one's relatives: they don't have their own equal venue or vehicle. It's easy to misuse a relationship's trust that way: too high a price, I think. In the process, however, I've restrained myself from mentioning important moments and sharing resources and ideas we've had.
In the last week, he got his own website -- part of the reason for the theme experimentation, by the way -- so I can point to that if necessary and stop being so coy. With that, let me introduce my husband
Jonathan Padget (JonathanPadget.com)
P.s. If you're in or near Washington, consider seeing his contribution to the Fringe Festival: The Blue Lagoon: A Musical