If you missed it, please review Massmarrier's latest take on the prospect of a Vermont governor's veto of the marriage bill state lawmakers passed. In sum? Review the Iowa decision and drop the faith-n-feelings argument.
And a note to the Christian opponents of same-sex marriage: the under-30s are judging you and the faith based on your reckless holy war. You're rather late to the "defend traditional marriage at any cost" game, and civil marriage is hardly an element of apostolic faith.
In your wake, you'll see generation of people indifferent to marriage -- which has far more to do with the culture than courts or legislatures -- who then will be hostile to the Christian church. Ugh, thanks for that.