This is more of a process note than anything.
Ever since General Assembly this year, I've made it a point to reduce my interaction related to the Unitarian Universalist Association. I've gone off of mailing lists and have cut down (nearly to zero) my interactions on social media. I skim the magazine but discard the fundraising pieces. I will, for the time being, maintain my fellowship and any interest in things that have value to me, like my retirement plan. (So I'll read the board minutes, say, to defend those interests if need be.)
But it's clear that there's not enough left in Unitarian Universalism on an institutional level to justify the downsides. OK, that's not news. But the fact the messages have gone from "Scott, don't leave" to "I understand" to "I'm getting out" is new. And those are people I trust and respect.
Since programmatic work has ground to nothing, there's nothing to miss. The work of the UUA has been replaced with taking care of its own sins, real or imagined. Why support that? Worse, some people who I would normally call colleagues are so embarrassing, caustic or bullying that I wouldn't want to be seen in public with them much less the identify professionally with them. And I'm a Universalist Christian, which should mean this is a natural home. But that's not been regarded as a good thing in Unitarian Universalist circles in decades. Universalist Christianity is having a theological renaissance but Universalist Christians in the rest of the world make a point of distinguishing themselves from the kind of religion practiced in the UUA. So the UUA's not only not helping, but it's actually hurting my religious life.
And I know I'm not alone in believing this. Some of you have been kind enough to write and express your frustrations and reservations, and even ask my advice. The most I can suggest is double your effort in your own local church, if you can, and leave the national body to its own devices.
Once I decided that, my mood improved. I can figure out what's coming next, and who I can work with instead. Save your money for something you love. Time to cut the ties that bind and chafe. Time to stop worrying.