A couple of weeks ago, when I was writing about Todd Eklof's The Gadfly Papers I would see commenters here and on Facebook preface their comments: "I'm not a minister" or "I just a UU member" or the like, as if their opinions about the general condition of the Unitarian Universalist Association would be less valued because they're not ministers.
So this is a little love note to the laity.
In our polity, a church is a group called out of the world, bound by covenant. It is this covenant-bound reality that identifies and makes its spiritual officers: the ministers and (where they continue) the deacons. Indeed, these officers are raised out of the congregation, though that's more of a legal fiction than not today. Still, at every ordination and installation, the heart truth of this relationship is announced. The election of ministers, new or newly-welcomed, is far from pro forma.
The thought continues: you can have a church without a minister — many do, whether they like it or not — but you can't have a church without the laity. (I suppose you could have a church with nothing but ministers, but I'd rather not, and in any case most would have to act like laypersons.)
And in practical terms, the laity staff the committees, raise the funds, offer counsel, and very often put out the chairs or make the coffee when needed. That great ministry of feeding a household in mourning is the province of the laity. There are hundreds of other works great and small, and hundreds of other joys and consolations, too. Without that, too, there would be no church. The work of the church is in the hands of the laity, often literally.
And heaven help the minister who tries to go it alone, or fails to take seriously the spoken or unspoken needs and aspirations of the (lay) members. So, naturally, some lay persons will have opinions (often strong ones) about what goes on in UUA and region business, and it has always been thus.
So if tempted, don't ever apologize for being a member of the laity.
I speak with a certain perspective as a minister but never forget I was once a layman myself.